Monday, April 25, 2016

**Girl**

I just woke up from my sleep and realized it was too late. May be because of the influence of my dream yesterday, I feel very emotional thinking about all those great girls, the women I know, and now I feel like writing something about them  As everyone says, a girl can only understand another girl, I suppose I would do justice to my post. Before starting, I would like to tell the guys, that I don't mean to offend you by any chance and I am sorry if you feel that way.

So I was wondering and thinking deeply about this creation; what all she goes through in her life, and yet being beautiful in all means. Girl the most beautiful gift by the God, this statement might have been very much familiar to you. Even though in some places it is treated as a curse, you would understand only when you have one in your life. The most beautiful creature, who uses her tears to wash away her worries and pains and do whatever for her loved ones. Only a girl can love you wholeheartedly even without having any expectations and her love is unconditional. She can silently love you from a distance, even after knowing that there is nothing she can expect in a relation and would get hurt herself to see her loved ones happy. She can smile with heart weeping, just to show her loved one that she is fine. She can't see the one she loves in pain.

Getting a girl in your life is always a blessing. A girl leaves her home, accepts her second home, and loves the people who were just strangers to her. She is an awesome piece of art, made so elegant and delicate, that is why men call them weak. But they don't know how much her heart is stronger than them. A man would need a girl when he is mentally drenched. The courage she gives is his next step to rise. Still she is considered weak, coz still the world is ruled by men who think, physical strength is what defines how strong you are (not everyone I would say). See how bold she is to accept a new family, and still loving her maternal home. Because girl loves emotionally, rather boys love physically. I wont say boys don't have emotional attachment, but it is more physical. Its not something to be blamed on, because that is the way god has created them. Once you have a wife, you would be more responsible for her than your parents. But with a girl, she doesn't lose the link to her parents, as her love is manyfold increased by giving away each time. She would keep every nuances of her loved ones, starting from the clothes they like, the food, the ambience, or whatever it be.  She can cook your favorite things, she can dress up like you want her to, she will always have the checklist with her on what all you like and dislike. May be much better than you, she will understand your mood. She can take you out from your brooding and make you feel alive.

You don't know what goes inside a girl when you hurt her. She doesn't weep in front of others whom she is not close with nor she closes a door and weep. She will take a moment out of her life, to let her heart skip a beat and pray to god to give her strength, to get over it. She cries over pains when she is alone, loudly so that her ears can hear her pain, and promises herself that she wont repeat this again. But she is an enigma, where she remembers everything in her life, but forgives so easily, that she wont stop loving even after getting hurt.  No girl would curse her once loved ones to go through bad times, even if she says that, the next moment she corrects it. If she is shouting at you or she is behaving differently, it is because of her frustration of not getting what she deserves. There are a lot of funny posts about girls, saying she is very expensive to manage. But the real girl wont ever be a burden to you, she builds her dynasty her own or supports you in building yours. She doesn't need much, a consoling word, a gentle kiss, an affectionate hug and an assurance that she is precious to you, which no diamond can buy. Those priceless gifts are what she actually wants.

It is a request to all men, please don't hurt the girl who loves you. You don't know how much you mean to her, the selfless devotion. You should stop the society in being cruel to her. You are responsible to take care of the girl/women, whoever it is, your mom, sister, wife, friend, daughter, coz the debt you have towards them cannot be paid by any means. There are lot they do for you, all the sacrifices for you, to see just the smiling face of yours!


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