Monday, April 25, 2016

**Girl**

I just woke up from my sleep and realized it was too late. May be because of the influence of my dream yesterday, I feel very emotional thinking about all those great girls, the women I know, and now I feel like writing something about them  As everyone says, a girl can only understand another girl, I suppose I would do justice to my post. Before starting, I would like to tell the guys, that I don't mean to offend you by any chance and I am sorry if you feel that way.

So I was wondering and thinking deeply about this creation; what all she goes through in her life, and yet being beautiful in all means. Girl the most beautiful gift by the God, this statement might have been very much familiar to you. Even though in some places it is treated as a curse, you would understand only when you have one in your life. The most beautiful creature, who uses her tears to wash away her worries and pains and do whatever for her loved ones. Only a girl can love you wholeheartedly even without having any expectations and her love is unconditional. She can silently love you from a distance, even after knowing that there is nothing she can expect in a relation and would get hurt herself to see her loved ones happy. She can smile with heart weeping, just to show her loved one that she is fine. She can't see the one she loves in pain.

Getting a girl in your life is always a blessing. A girl leaves her home, accepts her second home, and loves the people who were just strangers to her. She is an awesome piece of art, made so elegant and delicate, that is why men call them weak. But they don't know how much her heart is stronger than them. A man would need a girl when he is mentally drenched. The courage she gives is his next step to rise. Still she is considered weak, coz still the world is ruled by men who think, physical strength is what defines how strong you are (not everyone I would say). See how bold she is to accept a new family, and still loving her maternal home. Because girl loves emotionally, rather boys love physically. I wont say boys don't have emotional attachment, but it is more physical. Its not something to be blamed on, because that is the way god has created them. Once you have a wife, you would be more responsible for her than your parents. But with a girl, she doesn't lose the link to her parents, as her love is manyfold increased by giving away each time. She would keep every nuances of her loved ones, starting from the clothes they like, the food, the ambience, or whatever it be.  She can cook your favorite things, she can dress up like you want her to, she will always have the checklist with her on what all you like and dislike. May be much better than you, she will understand your mood. She can take you out from your brooding and make you feel alive.

You don't know what goes inside a girl when you hurt her. She doesn't weep in front of others whom she is not close with nor she closes a door and weep. She will take a moment out of her life, to let her heart skip a beat and pray to god to give her strength, to get over it. She cries over pains when she is alone, loudly so that her ears can hear her pain, and promises herself that she wont repeat this again. But she is an enigma, where she remembers everything in her life, but forgives so easily, that she wont stop loving even after getting hurt.  No girl would curse her once loved ones to go through bad times, even if she says that, the next moment she corrects it. If she is shouting at you or she is behaving differently, it is because of her frustration of not getting what she deserves. There are a lot of funny posts about girls, saying she is very expensive to manage. But the real girl wont ever be a burden to you, she builds her dynasty her own or supports you in building yours. She doesn't need much, a consoling word, a gentle kiss, an affectionate hug and an assurance that she is precious to you, which no diamond can buy. Those priceless gifts are what she actually wants.

It is a request to all men, please don't hurt the girl who loves you. You don't know how much you mean to her, the selfless devotion. You should stop the society in being cruel to her. You are responsible to take care of the girl/women, whoever it is, your mom, sister, wife, friend, daughter, coz the debt you have towards them cannot be paid by any means. There are lot they do for you, all the sacrifices for you, to see just the smiling face of yours!


Monday, April 4, 2016

Dreams :)

So this time I thought to go for a little literature as I am talking about Dreams. Its not the typical me at least in writing, who can literatify. My way of writing is to go scramble an egg and stuff a bread rather than to make a perfect omelette that would fit in a bread slice, even though my cooking style is sufficiently ordered. See now itself it turned the cooking way, which is alas there in blood and cannot stop the cooking language. So please expect lot of diversions from topic as I always do, this Libra just can't concentrate herself on something :P

For days now, my heart is pounding and popping out with ideas, telling me to write and she has lot to say this time about dreams. Seems she is restless and desperate to express her feelings about dreams to everyone out there. After all, she is the one going through all joys, pains, and madness of my dreams, so she needs attention and her words should be valued. 

This happened as usual late night, when I should be enjoying my nth level of sleep. I was staying back late to finish off my school assignments and it was already 2 30 in the night. But I couldn't sleep because of the noise my heart and mind were making. Now a days these guys are talking too much, giving me sleepless nights. May be because of the assignments, my lazy mind is awake after a long while and now became conscious to even slight pulses. So now when I started both of them are silent and doesn't have anything to say. They seem to be working on the plan for the next dream. So don't know how much I would be able to express as they not helping me, but anyway I have to continue.

My close ones says, I am a dreamy person, of course I am. But I will take that as an encouragement or appreciation as this so called dreams had brought me all this way. Also dreamy persons can only be romantic too :) Dream is that super power that has entered the life of everyone without they even knowing them. I don't know if animals dream. Some people says, dreams are those instincts in our life unfulfilled, that we look forward to experience. May be that is true for the naturally occurring ones, the ones deep buried in our sub conscious mind. But do you guys day dream? I know most of us do, and I would say I am an addicted one. Whenever I get a chance to take a sneak from real world I will slip into my day dreaming. 

Day dreaming keeps you happy in the sense, you will always have control of your topics. You are the master of your day dream and the control is all yours. You can twist the story the way you want to be. The most beautiful thing I have experienced is we can make our characters act the way we like in our dream ;) which we usually can't experience in real world :P We will always have a happy ending for our dreams. I have experienced lot of times standing in a crowd and laughing, not even knowing the surroundings. Don't feel embarrassed about it, its our life we can take the way we want. When I talk about this, the song "Masakali" came to my mind, yes we should take our life that way. Why bother about others. But make sure your day dream doesn't have anything menace, or else you would end up harming the ones beside you ;)

One more good reason to it is, people say the thing we see the most in our dreams is something like our destiny. It is our will, the greatest ambition. I remember a quote from Alchemist now. "And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it", and I guess if we have a strong will to get something, you would eventually get it and then it becomes your destiny. The story talks about dreams and how the person is finally reaching, where he always always wanted to be.

Dreams are also associated with love and romance. Exactly, when there is true love in your mind, you will try to become better each day. Every dream is resemblance of love and when we say love, it is not only the one between lovers. The aspire to live each day and each wish is because you love yourself and you want to give the best for you, which can strive you to the next dream and more and more. It is a joy to watch us in dream, getting everything we want again and again and in the way we want our life to be. It is so satisfying until we get it in reality. 

So I just wanted to convey how beautiful dreams are, to my friends who don't day dream. Hoping that this would have an influence on your lives too and start dreaming the next moment you are done with my post :D. I am stopping now, my heart came knocking back with her another adventure. Every day she would have something like this coming up and finally I have to run behind each of them to fulfill. Ha, isse kehte hai, "Lakh sambalo paagal dil ko dil dhadke hi jaye" :D So I am gonna lay back now and slip into my day dream again. See you guys later.